" It's really important to share what you're excited about and plan for the future! You can talk through role play scenarios or make specific priorities for which types of play you want to get to in the time between now and the next check in. As a Dom who likes to scene plan, it's really helpful to have this to look back on as a menu of options and ideas."
"I understand slip ups about names and pronouns, especially at the onset of someone coming out as trans* and you are still trying to get used to their names and pronouns. I think most trans* people give their loved ones a period to adjust, and correct them when they forget. However, there are deliberate cases of misgendering such as a partner dead naming you during an argument. Cringe."
"Even that couldn't stop the panic. I would still wake up with yeast infections and be convinced that the person who made out with me and spent the night, somehow had sex with me while I was asleep and passed on an infection. I started experiencing psychosomatic symptoms, my brain made up small bumps around my vulva that never existed. The anxiety I felt everyday was debilitating, I reached out to the mental health resources at my university and found them to be insufficient, I eventually made the choice to take a semester off from school."
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